"Thank you for a wonderful and thought provoking staff retreat. We were a bit skeptical when the idea of using a facilitator for our retreat was first proposed. However, we were completely won over by your ability to put us at ease which helped everyone to open up and participate in the group discussions. We look forward to having you at our next retreat to see how everyone is progressing with regards to achieving both the company and individual goals that we established during the retreat."
Brad Witherspoon, VP of Operations
Barnes Mosher Whitehurst Lauter & Partners
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(posted: January 19th, 2016)
We are taught that the f-word is shameful, and that we should avoid its use.
No, not that f-word, this one:
But failure is how we reach success.
A quick glance at the clock on the wall made my heart stop. It was almost the end of the first day of the big board retreat I was facilitating. The board, 50 CEOs from competing organizations, was nowhere near reaching their goals for the day.
The executives couldn't seem to work together to decide strategy and set the policies for the coming year, in spite of the fact that the goals were beneficial for the industry as a whole.
We were behind schedule, the busy execs only had one more day, and it was starting to look like the whole thing was going to implode.
It was starting to look like a failure--My failure.
I had successfully facilitated many board meetings before this one, effectively soothing ruffled feathers and calming outsized egos to get important strategic work done, so why was this one going south?
After we broke for the evening, tired and worried, I sat down to evaluate the day. How was I going to save this?
Failure and defeat can be some of our best teachers, but leaders are often afraid to let their people fail. In corporate culture it is considered better to play it safe and make the same choices again and again, because failure brings recriminations, and shame.
But, as the saying goes,
"Success is never final and failure never fatal. It's courage that counts."
Leaders need to be able to deliver risky, edgy, breakthrough ideas, plans, presentations, advice, technology, products, leadership, and more, without any fear of failure.
People tend to view failure and success as mutually exclusive. It's you in the middle with failure on one side and success on the other. With this model, you have to turn away from failure to move towards success. But if you look at it as a continuum or a progression, failure then becomes part of the process. Success is the destination and failure is a stepping stone along the path.
When leaders have the courage to embrace failure as a key element of success, for themselves and their teams, amazing things can happen.
Perhaps the most important thing leaders can do is to make failure acceptable by changing the culture of their organization. Make it clear that failures and mistakes are not going to incur blame (other than intentional negligence). Foster an environment where failures are willingly surfaced because they will be honestly evaluated to determine what can be changed or done better the next time.
In my situation with the executive board, I was alert to what was happening in the meeting and aware that the board was not progressing as expected, so I was able to identify the problem, analyze what was going wrong and experiment with a different format.
I "failed fast" by catching it quickly and applying a creative solution.
Organizations can learn from failure by applying these three key actions:
Ask: What happened?
Not: Who did it?
With my quick solution in place, the last day of the big retreat went off without a hitch, participation was high, and the board members accomplished their objectives, and more. In fact, they asked me to return. What could have been a failure was transformed into a success.
Failing again and again can be valuable, as long as what is learned brings you closer to your goals.
So...I hope I've convinced you to use the f-word more often!
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